To be gay or not to be??? That is the question

Welcome to the fist blog of the GAY PSYCHOLOGIST.

The first topic of discussion is..... "TO BE GAY OR NOT TO BE"

Well obviously people don't choose to be gay. People know it's difficult life style and acceptance is not always there. I think thats pretty much 100% understood. And if you don't believe it...You shouldn't be on this sight.

To be gay or not is the actions that people take. How people choose to live their lives. Some people choose a life that is very gay. By living in gay communities, going to gay restraunts, gay bars, gay movies. Get my point... Everything is gay. They have banners and flags on their cars and some have in their houses. They are very proud to be gay and live in the gay world.

For some people that is a healthy lifestyle. They feel very comfortable and feel open about being gay. They enjoy living this life.

But is it to limited. Is it living in a bubble?

Then you have the other group. Not to be gay. These people are more private about their personal lifestyle. They prefer living in both worlds where they can enjoy socializing with straights and go to movie theaters and restaurants and bars that are not so gay..more straight. These people tend to be more private or closeted about their sexuality.

But are they missing out on the gay lifestyle???

Overall in my opinion, I think it depends on the person. How you feel...What makes you comfortable...

ARE YOU GAY????

OR NOT????